Written By: Elli Stephanede | Founder of Sixx Cool Moms Approved Sponsor Left Knee Patch

My Journey To Sustainable Parenting

Back when I was single and without a child, I worked in the fast fashion industry, producing new clothes around the world for major brands. At the time, fast fashion was a novel concept and considered trendy. The devastating environmental impact wasn’t widely known, images of mountains of discarded clothing hadn’t yet circulated globally. However, I had seen them firsthand in Haiti, where piles of discarded garments had grown so high that people built homes on top of them.

We once again got pregnant, and life was good. The pregnancy itself was rough, though. If I hadn’t been pregnant and felt the way I did every day, I would have called in sick every. single. day. How does society expect pregnant women to work, carrying a growing human who shifts everything inside, saps all their nutrients, and makes them feel like they’re hosting a lovely but exhausting parasite?

Then came the pandemic. I spent the last month of pregnancy working from home, only to be furloughed in my 38th week. I was furious and stressed. I had strategically waited a year before having a baby to qualify for my employer’s parental leave benefits. Only to lose them all.

Luckily, little Luca arrived just before the furlough deadline. Unluckily, he was delivered via emergency C-section after his heartbeat stopped. Luca was tiny, AND the third percentile for newborns, but healthy. We took him home and settled into blissful parental leave. While the world was in the streets during the black lives matter protests, I was at home being milked like a cow. But, like The Laughing Cow, I was happy to be feeding my little calf.

I needed to recenter myself. I was a new mom, deeply in love with my child, supported by my partner, and still passionate about the apparel industry. But I didn’t want to continue mass-producing new clothes. What could I contribute to fashion that aligned with my values as a parent?

The waste in the textile industry had always horrified me. Most people don’t realize that polyester is plastic, and "vegan leather" is often just plastic, too. So much fabric is wasted in production, and countless garments end up in landfills.

I had always been passionate about recycling. As a child, I made my mother drive across town to the one recycling station where we could drop off a week’s worth of used paper.

And so, Left Knee Patch was born. My son’s left knee was constantly wearing through his pants. He slid across the floor and playground while racing his toy cars, tearing hole after hole. I realized I could extend the life of perfectly good clothing by repairing and rehoming them. I wanted to share the joy I had experienced with preloved kids’ clothes and make "preloved" become "reloved."

Starting in the DMV area, with dreams of expanding across the U.S., I was determined to create a business that aligned with both career goals and my role as a parent. This time, I was doing it on my terms.